Author: hikikomoricide
Im 18 years old and my parents wont let me see my boyfriend
To be fair its really just my mom but my dad isn’t gonna stand up for himself to her, Im not a psychiatrist but I’m 80% sure my mom has BPD 😭. (not gonna go into full detail for that) Anyways she dislikes him because she “associates him with my past” I was scared to tell her at first but when I eventually did she completely crashed out took all my devices. I am currently typing this on a school Chromebook…
I want to make her understand I’m 18 now and I should be able to decide if I want him apart of my life, especially when he makes me happy.
Shes very stubborn.. she always talks over me and stuff idk how to convince her should I just move out at this point I’ll always live with a deep pit in my chest without him..
And before you say use the “Im 18 I can do what I want” I’ve tried this and lets just say it didn’t end well. Im also a senior in highschool, a highschool SHE teaches at if that means anything.
Effed up movies might not be the best place to get advice but I’ll hear out anyone at this point.
When I used to be with them I was not allowed to step outside. #STOP DRAMATISING YOUR SHIT!
All the friends I know whose mum did not like the boyfriend ended up divorced. Save yourself from misery in the future and go find one your mum likes.
…school chromebooks are monitored so I hope no nosey cunt tells social services….although if they have allowed you to visit EUM they are not really doing a decent job of monitoring…
Just fuck him on the couch at your parent’s house, leave the stains and your underwear on the cushions, and let them seethe with rage.
They’ll get over it.
Dam