Author: Dawid
EUM is probably the last site i should be asking for social advice on but anyway, i was recently at a clothing bazaar and had these two cute girls come up to me, we exchanged insta handles and said hi to eachother and that’s it, idk what else is supposed to happen, any ideas?
1.) two girls at the same time came up to you or at different times? If both of them came up to you at the same time I think you were being recruited for a threesome or being pranked
2.) if it was at different times and the two girls asked seperately, just wait for them to dm you (I would say make the first move since ur a guy, but they made the first move so it would be more logical if they text you first)
3.) if they don’t text u after a day, and u still wanna talk to them i personally would just start a conversation by reacting to one of their posts
For example: say one of them has a post idk about going on vacation to the zoo, you could send her own post to her dms and include a message with it like “woah how adventurous I love the zoo” or something like that
4.) if this isn’t the case (no posts) then just say hey it’s me (the guy from ____) I’d love to get to know you
5.) if u guys made actual conversation before exchanging instagrams then follow up on something that was said
Just be like “hi it was so nice running into you at the clothing bazaar the other day, how are you doing?”
Don’t bother talking to anyone people will lie and cheat you even closest friends, one fight it’s over for your privacy. People don’t bring anything to your life but misery. It’s s best to live solo even if it’s lonely as fuck self preservation is the only key to survival don’t let the whole “we are social creatures” shit fool you just stick with family and that’s it even though they’re not really trustworthy either lol making a facade to temporary make “friends” with someone so you can have sex with them is really the only real reason you should communicate with another roach human being
Read “How To Win Friends and Influence People” by Dale Carnegie.
Wait a few seconds to see if they’re talkative and will fill in conversations for you. If they aren’t then you unfortunately will have to be the one to do this. Say stuff like “hello”
okay mr. popular i see you >:] maybe go through the girls insta and see if you have anything in common to talk about?
Wait. Sounds very scammy to me. Then again I am old fashioned and have not been active for many years so maybe this is the normal way nowadays.